Your dating chats contain rich signals about interest, reciprocity, and readiness to meet. With Convo’s Dating & Relationships mode, you can bring a single chat or multiple threads and get structured AI insights tailored for dating dynamics.
What You’ll Learn
- Interest & Engagement: See who initiates more, how engaged responses are, and key interest signals
- Initiation & Responsiveness: Understand reply speed, missed replies, and follow‑through
- Vibe & Compatibility: Evaluate the overall vibe, compatibility score, communication style, and shared interests
- Progression & Plans: Identify whether the chat is moving toward a date, including scheduling signals and blockers
- Red Flags: Surface potential issues like inconsistency, boundary problems, or love‑bombing
"Convo turns your dating chats into clear, actionable insights—helping you decide what to say next and whether things are headed in a good direction."
Step-by-Step: Analyze Your Dating Chats
You can import chats from WhatsApp, Telegram, Messenger, or SMS (see our other guides). Once imported, switch the AI mode to “Dating & Relationships” and generate insights.
Step 1: Import a Chat
- Open Convo and click the import option for your platform (WhatsApp, Telegram, Messenger, or SMS)
- Select your exported file and confirm who you are in the conversation
- Wait for parsing—Convo processes messages locally and prepares them for analysis
Step 2: Switch to Dating & Relationships Mode
- Open the AI panel and choose Dating & Relationships
- Click Generate AI Insights
- Review the cards: Interest & Engagement, Initiation & Responsiveness, Vibe & Compatibility, Progression & Plans, and Red Flags
What Each Card Shows
Interest & Engagement
Interest level, engagement level, reciprocity (who initiates), and key signs summarized for quick reading.
Initiation & Responsiveness
Who starts conversations, reply speed, missed replies, and follow‑through quality.
Vibe & Compatibility
Overall vibe (e.g., playful, warm), compatibility score, communication style, and shared interests.
Progression & Plans
Stage (e.g., building rapport, planning), scheduling signals, blockers, and a concrete next step.
Red Flags
Potential issues and severity, plus cautions to keep in mind.
Tips for Better Results
- Import full chat history where possible—the AI works best with context
- Include multiple threads for a holistic view across dates and platforms
- Re-run insights after key moments (e.g., a date scheduled or rescheduled)
Ready to Analyze Your Dating Chats?
Open Convo, import a chat, switch to Dating & Relationships mode, and generate insights. You’ll get a clear picture of interest, engagement, vibe, and next steps.
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